Flickvän har killkompisar

Sally: No, just to be friends, ok?

Harry: Great, friend! specific! (ch?c ch?n r?i)

You realize, of course, that we can never be friend.

S: why not?

H: What I'm saying is...I mean It's not a come-on in any way, shape or form that men and women can't be friends because sex part always get in the way.

S: That's not true! I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.

H: No, you don't.

S: Yes, I do.

H: No, I think I don't

S:You say I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?

H: No, what I'm saying is that they all want to have sex with you

S: They do not (x2)

H: do too (X2)

S: How do you know?

H: Because no man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her.

S: So you are saying that man can't be a friend with a woman that he finds unattractive.

H: No,, you pretty much want to nail them, too.

S: what if they don't want to have sex with you?

H: Its doesn't a matter, because the sex thing is already out there; so friendship is ultimately doom and that is the end of the story.

S: well I guess that we are not going to be friends then.

H: I suess not

S: that's too bad. You are the only person that I knew in New York.

H: Staying over?

S: yes!

H: Would you like to have dinner?

Just friends!

S: I thought that you didn't believe that men and women could be friends.

H: When did I say that?

S: On the ride to New York (Trong lan den NY)

H: No, no. I never said that. Yes, that's right! they can't be friends, unless both of them are involved with (thich) other people, then they can. This is an amendment (viec sua doi) to the early rule: if the two people are in relationship, the pressure of possible involvement is lifted.

That does not even work either because what happens then is the person you are involved with can't understand why you need to be friends with the person you are just friends with. Like it means something is missing from the relationship. Why do you have to go out to get it. And when you say no...no...That's not true. Nothing is missing from the relationship, the person you are involved with then accuses you of being secretly attracted to (yeu tham) person you are just friends with, which probably you are. I mean come on, who the hell are we kidding, let's face it. Which brings us back the early rule before the amendment, which is, men and women can't be friends. So where you got?

S: Harry, good-bye.

H: Ok.

I'll just stop walking I look while you go ahead.

Ser inte problemet?

Vad spelar det för roll om hennes kompisar vill sätta på henne så länge som dom faktiskt bara tänker tanken?

Undrar också hur killar och tjejer kan vara nära vänner utan att knulla när dom båda är singlar? Killarna borde ju åtminstone försöka då enligt din teori.

Ja, sannolikt vill killkompisarna ligga med henne, och några kommer bli/är kära i henne. Så är det bara.
Och nej, hon känner sannolikt inte samma för killkompisarna, eftersom tjejer funkar tvärtom på det sätter överlag. Däremot vet hon att de vill ha henne och hon njuter förmodligen av den skruvade maktrelationen och outtalade bekräftelsen.
Dock finns det inte så mycket du kan göra. Vill du vara med henne får du acceptera hennes kompisval. Och du kan nog känna dig ganska trygg med att din tjej inte kommer att göra något. Däremot finns det som sagt en risk för att hon är en energitjuv med bekräftelsebehov.

Jag säger att du har helt och hållet fel och att det går alldeles utmärkt att ha ubersnygga tjejkompisar utan att som man lyfta ett finger om tillfället ges. Att du själv är så pass svag att du inte skulle kunna motstå frestelsen får stå för dig.

Vidare bör du göra slut med din flickvän eftersom hon förtjänar bättre än en paranoid loser som ska ha ständig kontroll över vad hon gör och vilka hon träffar.