pyssel skrev 2020-09-04 21:19:25 följande:
#56 Anonym (Betydligt mer komplext än så.) skrev 2020-09-03 21:13:55 följande:
Något du bör lära dig om forskning är att tanken att forska på orsaken till något och därefter dra slutsatser oftast byts ut mot dra en slutsats och använda forskning för att påvisa detta.
"byts ut"? Du är tydligen obekant med olika ansatser och/eller när det kan finnas en poäng att använda flera. Något DU "behöver lära dig om forskning".
Så går vi vidare
: Du inledde ganska tidigt med gammal skåpmat som "ett fåtal män och alla kvinnor". Jojo, så är det ju: Att några få elaka män får ligga med alla kvinnor. Utom precis just när de sitter inne med besöksrestriktioner. Det är enda gången de inte ligger - med kvinnor i alla fall. Men då blir det väldigt mkt våldsporr istället. Tycker jag fått väldigt mkt hjälp här på FL att greppa helheten och hur det ligger till. Jag tar din "slutsats och använder forskning för att bevisa detta".
Bioligist mannen nr1 får väl svara på det...genom att citera evolutionär biologist farbror från en bok.
If you don't understand women right now, that is no accident. Women evolved to be more complicated than you can understand so they could protect themselves from being seduced, manipulated, and exploited.
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why women value some key attractive traits in men, such as physical health, mental health, intelligence, willpower, kindness, and protectiveness
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When a man interacts with a woman, his greatest fear is sexual rejection and humiliation. This causes him to spend as much time and energy (if not more) on defensive strategies to protect against rejection as he does on mating strategies to attract women.
Women are totally different. In these interactions, they are not much afraid of rejection. Rather, when a woman interacts with a man, she is afraid of being physically harmed or sexually assaulted.
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No woman in any culture is erotically attracted to ineffectiveness, whether it's powerlessness or joblessness or sexual impotence or getting flustered by crises or failing to protect a baby. Thus, apart
from cultivating signs of effectiveness, it can be even more important to stop showing signs of ineffectiveness. In most species, in fact, a lot of female choice is about avoiding the bad rather than approaching the good. This is why women usually have such a strong, visceral, sexual disgust toward psychopaths, narcissists, creeps, crazies, stalkers, slackers, losers, morons, etc.
A relationship with a kind, generous boyfriend could help nurture and protect a woman's body for a few months-but a relationship with a psychotic, violent boyfriend could result in permanent disability or immediate death in the blink of an eye.
- Geoffrey Miller
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Cultivating your good boyfriend traits is important even if you don't want a girlfriend yet because the vast majority of women are more attracted to "good relationship material"-a guy who seems like a quality boyfriend or Mr. Right-than to a "player" or "boy toy."
Even a woman who is really just cruising for some hot sex will enjoy you more and feel less vulnerable to slut-shaming if she can fantasize about you being a great boyfriend. The sex will be hotter too, because most women?s brains just will not let them reach orgasm if they know that you're worthless as anything other than a penis with a body attached (even if that's exactly what she?('s using you for).
- Geoffrey Miller
