Vi kan ju inte ha nåt gemensamt med den åldersskillnaden. Och skulle vi ha det, så betyder det att jag är omogen, och har stannat i utvecklingen.
Såhär skrev en tjej som träffade en 22 år äldre man.
Maturity doesn?t come with age, but it comes with experience
I used to think that because my partner was 22 years older than me, he would be so much more mature than me. Spoiler alert, I was wrong. I sometimes catch my boyfriend playing with Lego, acting silly, he?s still a child at heart. He sees the world as being a safe place and trusts to a fault sometimes. I, on the other hand, have gone through many different struggles in life that my partner couldn?t imagine going through. His innocents to struggle are one of the reasons I fell so hard in love with him. Love left me with the learning experience that maturity doesn?t come with age at all.
The more life experiences you have, the more maturity you will have. You will understand the ideas of knowing the right place and the right time to say or do things. Timeline is a state of mind. Another way to say this is that you have street smarts. You?re adaptable and have a deep understanding of social situations.
A lot of times, people assume that if you?re in a gapped age relationship, your partner is always very mature because of their age. This isn?t still the case, a lot of the time, they meet you in the middle, and this is why it works. If your older partner can meet you right where your mental age is, then the rest doesn?t matter. Maturity doesn?t come with age; it comes with experiences.