So many questions

My wife is pregnant v37 via the ivf clinic here in Sweden. I'm confused on how this other parent legality works. I signed a paper the day of insemination (first time worked). Do I have to adopt the child or was that paper that talked about genetic integrity "the paper"??

I've felt rather outside of this pregnancy when it comes to doctor appointments and delivery information as its all for fathers and they just toss in the word partner when they see me ????

Are there any others in my shoes ? I can read Swedish... but writing... I've spared you ????