pyssel skrev 2019-07-16 20:13:44 följande:
#703 @KlantSmurfen
Du blandar bloggande psykologer med egna påståenden som levereras som fakta du uppmanar mig att bestrida. Likaså blir det väldigt rörigt när du ber mig försvara mina ord du ger en annan innebörd och bisatser än det jag lagt fram. Sakta ner och sortera ut om du vill diskutera istället för utmattad, och bomba mig inte med bloggande psykologer, din åsikt räcker fint när det är den du uttrycker. Alfa, nice guy eller röd och gul för den delen, är långtifrån vedertagna uttryck i all samtalsterapi så det blir inte obestridliga fakta med alla dessa länkar till bloggar och Youtubers som snöat in på dessa inceluttryck.
#574 "
Är det inte en väldigt utbredd manlig norm att..."
Jag har redan förklarat att det var det jag kritiserade, jag har inte givit dina ord någon annan innebörd. "
Det var från början ett kort inlägg med en stereotyp..." ger det en annan innebörd men det går inte direkt att utläsa från #574, eller hur?
Blir det inte rörigt när du ger dina ord en annan innebörd efter jag kritiserat dem och sen anklagar mej för att ge dina ord en annan innebörd?
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Alfa, nice guy eller röd och gul för den delen, är långtifrån vedertagna uttryck i all samtalsterapi...som snöat in på dessa inceluttryck."
inceluttryck?
No More Mr. Nice Guy - Robert A. Glover - böcker (9780762415335) | Adlibris Bokhandel
Originally published as an e-book that became a controversial media phenomenon,
No More Mr. Nice Guy! landed its author, a certified marriage and
family therapist, on
The O'Reilly Factor and the Rush Limbaugh radio show. Dr. Robert Glover has dubbed the "Nice Guy Syndrome" trying too hard to please others while neglecting one's own needs, thus causing unhappiness and resentfulness. It's no wonder that unfulfilled Nice Guys lash out in frustration at their loved ones, claims Dr. Glover. He explains how they can stop seeking approval and start getting what they want in life, by presenting the information and tools to help them ensure their needs are met, to express their emotions, to have a satisfying sex life, to embrace their masculinity and form meaningful relationships with other men, and to live up to their creative potential."
https://www.adlibris.com/se/bok/no-more-mr-nice-guy-9780762415335#
No More Mr. Nice Guy (book) - Wikiwand
No More Mr. Nice Guy| A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life is a 2003 self-help book by Dr. Robert A. Glover. He describes what he calls the "Nice guy Syndrome", a condition in men who appear to be always nice and who try to avoid conflict at all costs.
Glover's premise is that nice guys have been conditioned by their childhoods and by society to believe that they will be successful only if they make everyone happy and never cause any problems for others. However, this desire for approval results in self-loathing. In other words, nice guys want approval, but don't think they deserve it. This creates internal frustration, since nice guys never try to obtain what they want in life. In addition, the nice guy's desire to obtain approval from everyone (especially women), causes him to actually behave in very un-nice ways. This includes dishonesty (about themselves) and passive-aggressive behavior ("being unavailable, forgetting, being late, not following through...").
Dr. Glover's prescription involves getting nice guys to recognize that their needs and desires are important, and that to make others happy they must first learn to make themselves happy. One of the primary ways advised in the book to remedy this is for nice guys to learn to embrace and develop their masculine traits, instead of fearing and suppressing them.
www.wikiwand.com/en/No_More_Mr._Nice_Guy_(book)
The Nice Girl Syndrome: Stop Being Manipulated and Abused - And Start Standing Up for Yourself - Beverly Engel | Adlibris Bokhandel
How women can overcome the pressure to please others and feel free to be their true selves
Are you too nice for your own good? Do family members manipulate you? Do coworkers take advantage of you? If this sounds familiar, read The Nice Girl Syndrome. In this breakthrough guide, renowned author and therapist Beverly Engel, who has helped thousands of women recognize and leave emotionally abusive relationships, can show you how to take control of your life and take care of yourself.
Engel explains that women today simply cannot afford to be Nice Girls, because women who are too nice send the message that they are easy targets and are much more likely to be victimized emotionally, physically, and sexually. She identifies the seven different types of Nice Girls and helps you understand which type or types might apply to you. Engel helps you determine whether the Nice Girl Syndrome is keeping you in an abusive relationship or in manipulative situations and helps you change Nice Girl beliefs and behaviors that are holding you back.
Shows you how to confront the beliefs and behaviors that keep you stuck in a Nice Girl act as you replace them with healthier, more empowering ones
Includes inspiring stories of women Engel has worked with who have found the courage and strength to stop taking abuse and start standing up for themselves
"This book will challenge, entertain, and empower its readers."--Publishers Weekly (starred review)
Written by renowned author and therapist Beverly Engel, who has helped thousands of women recognize and leave emotionally abusive relationships
Filled with wise advice, powerful exercises, and practical prescriptions, The Nice Girl Syndrome shows you step by step how to take control of your life and be your own strong woman.
https://www.adlibris.com/se/bok/the-nice-girl-syndrome-stop-being-manipulated-and-abused----and-start-standing-up-for-yourself-9780470579909#
Beverly Engel L.M.F.T. | Psychology Today
Beverly Engel has been a
practicing psychotherapist for thirty-five years. She is the author of 22 books...
www.psychologytoday.com/intl/experts/beverly-engel-lmft Alpha (ethology) - Wikiwand är den som är högst rankad i en social hierarki, ett av klippen handlade om "pseudo alpha"
pseudo alpha male
1. One who is a completely fraudulent alpha male.
2. One who lacks any sort of the real life attributes of an alpha male, while conversely acting like he is one.
www.urbandictionary.com/define.php%20alpha%20male
är det inceluttryck?
pyssel skrev 2019-07-16 18:32:29 följande:
#697 En fråga, anser du att det finns ett missbruk av kategorierna "alfa", "cuck" och "nice guy"? Det tycker jag.
Att begreppen missbrukas och/eller används av de som inte förstår vad de betyder tar jag inte ansvar för.
"bloggande psykologer", "Youtubers som snöat in på dessa inceluttryck."
Du verkar har problem med etiketter...när andra använder dem.