Min chef gor allt for att satta dit mig!
I started a new job for around 9 months ago in housekeeping department in a hotel, my senior saw my potential and promoted me after 4 weeks to be a trainer and mentor for new people. The place has a high turnover and there is a lot of new peoples starting all the time. All the people starting, the people that I am mentoring for 2 weeks, to teach them about the work, they all love me. I can feel that they like me and that they are comfortable to aske me questions. I actually get messages from them where they thank me for my support. I am picking up their phone calls after working hours when they need me, I work overtime when they fall behind without getting paid for it. My trainees constantly ask me why I am not promoted to become a supervisor. I feel really appreciated from them.
My boyfriend work as a supervisor for the same company but was placed in another hotel. Because of a hostile environment in our hotel, we have trouble to keep our supervisor and they brought him to our hotel to help out. My senior puts him as a trainer. So she is basically replacing me with my own partner. I know he is good at this job but I know I am doing a good job as well. And they didn't even tell me. One day they just gave my paper to him.
I told the office that I was not okey with this and I wanted to be moved to another property. Since they need people in my hotel, they said no, and said that they will talk to my senior about what is going on. I am now back in my position but my senior has become so mean. She complain over everything, every footstep I take is wrong, everything I do or do not do is wrong, she even questions me in front of the new people. sometimes she comes to us and just stand in the corner an observes me. When I ask her if she wants to say something she just say no.
All staff has problem with our senior and her attitude and the new people hates her. I feel they stay because of me. I have so many appreciative messages from them but it makes me sad that my senior can't see my hard work. Now I have stomach pain going to work everyday. I am thinking to apply for a new job but I will lose all my benefits. In august I am suppose to get man annually leave. I also do love the time with my trainees, for them I am an important persons and that is something I will miss if I apply to become supervisor somewhere else. I just want to be appreciated for what I am doing, as it is now I will never get anywhere in this position because she obviously has something against me.
I just feel I need to hear from other people what I should do now. I went from loving my work to feel nausea in the morning before starting.