Anonym (Rick) skrev 2024-06-28 20:51:49 följande:
AnonymWoman well Alright. I have no trouble to write in English as i'm significantly much more proficient in English than Swedish. but as it has turned out in the past there are not a huge lot of people in Sweden who wants to communicate in these kinds of settings in English or may provide counsel in English. but I understand that people want to speak Swedish in Sweden and I'm quite alright in oral environments albeit an unfortunate accent. in text however, not so much... It's not the vocabulary but the Swedish draconian grammars system and inadvertent fusion with what's apparently turns out just to be internet or juvenile SMS slang in Sweden and also more generally in the Western part of the world (even if I'm much better as it relates to English culture and language) who really messes it up like shitshit in my head. But i'm a fighter even if Swedish girls might not value personal spirit. i really am a fighting spirit and I and tries my best to overcome all the obstacles of racism and superficiality from Swedish mean-girls which you can see in this thread, I mean it's just awful. i work hard to attain my goals even if all of the Swedish cultural and social and government systems almost seems rigged to discriminate against myself.
so I'm grateful for your respectful response to me. It's unusual as it relates to this. People at this post have been so utterly despicable and rude. I'm actually so astonished. as I wrote to anonymousV it's just to take a look at the things and tropes which've been hurled by Core, anonymousTjej, anonymC anonymousVa and Mathias , Oppenheimer and most of the rest of the lot. i'm not a violent person quite opposite actually but the crudeness of for example mathias I mean just trying to call me a immature sore loser I just feel the blood of my veins boil like madness. if he'd even dared meeting be me physically I'd happy to have a little nice nice chat with him. and just knowing that there are girls in this forum who just loves having it at me and highlighting how unattractive their superficial minds considers me and it's my approach to the matter of gender who's the problem and They wouldn't even look at me twice I mean it's almost like people weren't properly instructed!. the collective denial of all the struggles I've fought, how i was treated by the guidance counselor the ignorance of the abysmal way which girls treat me and ignores me and how everything is just my fault and the repat of mendacious nonsense that Swedish girls just have got no element of responsibility for my experience. The constant patronizing condescending attitude and woeful denial of my Experiences. it's just so bitterly sad for Sweden to have such girls calling this fine magnificent Kingdom their Homeland.
but can i stress you seems to be such much nicer of a person and that's Great to know! and i'd really like to present myself in English if there might be other people not like the bully-lobby but genuine nice people here who perhaps would be able to grant some candor relationship advice or even be interested in meeting up. Yeah you've probably right that you misses a lot of the real me when not speaking in a language of proficiency and all the nuances and what's in between the lines that's probably just right so i hope people actually can get to know me better in English .
And as I've said I know I've got much better personality qualities than the looks I know this, I ain't perfect. i know I aren't perfect right. it's sad that people seems that it's okay to be rude about it and rub-it in. but I know i've got a great personality and can take care of a woman's need and I would be a great head of family while I believe in gender equity of course but i can really take responsibility for others. But I would've hoped that Swedish femininity weren't so just stuck-in-their-back-head and probably fed-up with social media shit, in immature and superficial high school culture but would like to consider what's under all of the shallow things like looks and height. that there a greater qualities than what's apparent seemingly. But Swedish girlhood as they should be more properly referred to seems just utterly incapable of change and impotent of looking at themselves in a mature light of truth which now is evident in the counsel i've been provided by so many many Swedish shallow mean-girls and Mathias and Core in this thread. and how it has forced me to go to Asia to get a wife. but that's alright i guess that's what I outta do and I will and there will be many Swedish mean-girls who I'm sure just bets, prays and hopes i cannot never ever may get a beautiful wife. I'd just be happy to look at their grim faces when i succeed because i really want to even if I struggle now. i'm a fighter as I said and will fight for this and my fighting spirit is one of my greatest traits of personality and that I fight for want I want. Well it's just so sad for Sweden how Swedish femina has turned out i mean it's really sorrowful for our culture. i wish more Swedish girls would look behind what's under all the shallow stuff and look to the personal qualities of interest to find common traits of unity.
So anonymWoman I am interested in you and what you finds attractive in a man? please elaborate for the purposes of myself learning. Would you be interested and which traits would you be looking for?
Thanks for your elaborate and well structured reply. As another person mentioned you seemed to be able to express yourself more mature and in my opinion even more vibrantly and interesting in English rather than Swedish.
To reply your question concerning my preferences when it comes to male attraction. I 'm happily married for 20 years and I have chosen a man that I 1.consider my best friend. 2.Makes me feel safe 3. Having the mental strenght to embrace both my highs and lows in life. 4. Being a role model for our children. 5. Have a goal and ambition to achieve the best version of yourself. In my case my husband has ticked all the boxes. The physical attraction comes automatically even though he is considered an attractive man. Not a supermodel but in my eyes very pleasant to watch. I mean, I gave loved him for 20 years.
One thing that is a dealbreaker for me is that I have always been attracted to men who is more or just as experienced as I am. I met my husband when I was 26 and I had been i 2 longer relationships and engaged prior to this. In my case, your lack of experience in relationships wouldn't work for me if I would have met you 20 years ago.
I wish you the best of luck for the future . If you are as you have presented yourself, driven by goals in life you should be just as sucessful in meeting a future wife of yours but you need to work as hard as for reaching your other goals. That could mean that your have to work on your persona and maybe stay more independent from your parents.