Anonym (Bekymrad TS) skrev 2020-01-13 13:17:00 följande:
Det jag hört om Tyskland är att deras familjerätt har en bra process för att få båda föräldrarna att få till stånd ett samverkansavtal.
Men det jag söker på om domstolar bekräftar din ledsamma bild: In Germany, one parent may apply to the family court for sole right of custody. The court will agree to such an application if they decide the removal of joint custody and transfer of custody to one parent is in the child's best interests.[20]
Non-married Fathers; To obtain "Shared Custody" (and any real rights concerning children) is possible through marriage or by the mother signing a declaration of shared custody or since May 2013 by applying to the court. Sole custody (for the father) is of course not realistic under the current German family law. The German Supreme Court (Bundesverfassungericht) has decided on 21 July 2010 that the actual Family Law is against the German Constitution Law.[21] For a very detailed explanation of the legal situation, see Wikipedia German web page;[22]
Joint custody can be defeated when the parents do not agree. See Constitutional Court decision 1 BvR 738/01 from March 1, 2004,[23] paragraph II. 1. a) The third sentence is translated into English as: "The joint exercise of parental responsibility presupposes a viable social relationship between the parents and requires a minimal level of agreement between them." If one parent refuses to cooperate, the court changes joint custody to sole custody. The law governing the choice of parent receiving sole custody is based on "best interests of the child" [24] The non-cooperation of a parent is not a factor when determining "best interests of the child" and therefore which parent receives sole custody. A parent can refuse to cooperate in order to force a decision in favor of sole custody and then be eligible to win sole custody after refusing to cooperate with the other parent.
Ibland kan man ju ha fina lagar men folk sköter det inte så bra. Och det är ju först ganska sent som lagarna ingriper. Tills dess har redan föräldrarna bråkat om barnet och kan inte tänka sig gå med på växelvis boende. Och familjerätten stödjer ju detta. Det ser du i det som du har citerat.
Och som du också citerar - är man inte gift så har pappan inte vårdnad och har i princip inga rättigheter.